One day, during one of those annoying phone interviews I was asked what my occupation. To tear a smile to my interlocutor I said "are an entrepreneur, I manage my family."
Then I thought about it, and in fact it is so .... because we have women who by choice or necessity we are dedicated to the family as a whole, we are like the CEO of the Fiat ... ... goes, you control, it runs the whole course. We try to channel the children on tracks that lead to their future, trying to give all necessary directions so that they know how to pick and choose what is best for them. Della'azienda family finances are managed by balancing the books to the penny for a budget always active, organizing lunches and dinners daily trying to meet the needs of all the proceedings are conducted manual needed that everything is always in order. Sometimes we overlook something and let it go, then return to the ranks and come into compliance with what has been left out.
is not easy to manage everything, and not all can count on a husband who makes or participates in everything on the collaboration of children giving a hand to hold at least with regard to their room. It 's a continuous monitor, manage, order. The clothes, the pantry, cabinets everything must be supervised with care and attention
I try to do my best, I try to please everyone and make things equal for everyone. Not always succeed. There are days when around the house in search of a stimulus and do the bare minimum, and instead there are days I wake up full of desire to do and put everything upside down.
In my family there is an air-company quite happy, my kids are good kids without too many shackles on my mind, some defaiance its path, but of small account. My husband? And 'a man to marry, P ... ... even if he did not say how often enjoy it.
The boys are studying both, the great, Mark, is education. Study computer science and having had a moment of crisis during which he could not mix a lot, now it is back on track. It 's a little boy a' silent (Like me) who like me can pull out on what he feels. If we have any quarrel can not tell me what he wants and a little 'this is my fault. I am a little 'aggressive towards him. But it's not because I am unhappy with him, indeed. It 's just that I wish the best for him, I realized that in his dreams. It put all its efforts in what he does and he had a bit more confidence with me. Instead, he keeps everything inside.
The small, Alessio, all'alberghiero studies, is 14 years old and is very sure of himself. A bit 'touchy. He has a very edgy and adolescence has increased this small defect. We are facing the period of his claim as person ... ... and we often have children fighting over how to respond or things you should do and wants to go his own way.
But all in all, are two good guys. We were never given serious problems, some thoughts, but problems ever.
My husband, Sergio, is a good man. Totally dedicated to his family. Everything about me and the children comes before everything else, sometimes even before himself. On this sometimes disagree. But he has done so.
exits early in the morning to work and never falls before 19 pm. Yet always finds a way to help me home, take me spending and to dedicate all attention possible. And 'happy when I'm happy and sad if you feel that something is wrong with me. He has many thoughts on my mind but I try not to weigh on me and his children.
I have a sin against him ... ... do not ever tell him how much I appreciate his way of being. Its always be present, his thinking before us and then himself, his life depending on us.
But my shy nature in some ways, leads me to be undemonstrative. I would like more pampering, but I can not make him. I just know that he is there beside me every step to stay healthy. He wants me External most of my thoughts and my good for him. But I do not know. I do not know because they are not capable. Perhaps over the years, changing with the growth, because when I was a girl not a day went by that he does not write a note, every opportunity was good to tell him how I felt. We have always been very close, we have always done everything together and continue to do so. But today I got a little 'more closed to him.
has not changed what I feel for him, even though we had some nasty crises in recent years. It 's just changed my way of being, to show me.
I hope to be a good wife for him. That mate that has always chosen to work alongside and to which he dedicated himself.
We have a dream together ... .... And I hope someday to be able to achieve it. A house surrounded by greenery in which to spend our days and share the things we love.
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